Some of these people are so timid that they cannot speak for themselves, and this causes problems in their lives. An example for this would be myself. When I was small, I had literally no courage to speak for myself, I was “SHY” but this shyness led to many problems. People started to dominate me, and I felt useless. Of course, later, I took the courage and stood up for myself. The definition of shy is basically just not being able to mix up and not socialize that well, but if this factor becomes really major and is seen everywhere, in everything you do, then it’s a problem my friend!
Being shy is one’s nature, but who said we cannot change that? First off, what are you actually shy about? Why are you not able to talk openly? Is it because you think people will not like you? Or is it because you think you will make a fool of yourself?
WHY CARE? Who cares if you do? Who cares if others like you or not? You continue being yourself!! And yes, be proud of who you are, no need to hide it! If you are a person who cannot hide their emotions, hell SPILL IT OUT!If you are an angry person, GET THAT ANGER OUT OF YOU! Never ever keep it in!! Because the more you hide, the more you will start feeling cramped up from the inside! Socializing is a necessary for survival, but standing up for yourself and believing in yourself is more important!
“Be yourself!! Believe in yourself!! And LOVE yourself...”
These three lines can change your whole life if you actually take it very seriously and stop letting OTHER people dominate YOU! You can control your own life!! You should not get influenced by others and you should do what you feel like and live happily... And OPEN up to the world as much as you can because the joy of sharing is not comparable to any other joy!!
Be Happy, Be Positive, Laugh, Love, Live your life!